the problem with being a person who silently gets over things is that other people aren't.
the problem with being a person who isn't easily offended is that you don't know the rules.
so you learn the rules.
and then your shoes get worn out from tiptoeing everyone's feelings
and now you know how to not offend people
because heaven forbid that you should wake their upset heart
because that's when the true trouble begins
because most people aren't afraid to tell you when they're offended and that they aren't going to get over it unless this and this and this and this and you're always in the wrong but they never are because you never speak up even when they over speak up and you just can't because they just don't understand.
i don't understand either. but i love them.
and the problem with being a person who loves people enough to sidestep their tender feelings
is that you get pushed around and told what to do by other people's emotions, even if no one is speaking.
and even though they hurt you sometimes, you don't speak out.
but it's ok.
because you can just deal with it. you'll get over it. you aren't offended.
right?
I'm. Sorry.
